Find reasons not excuses

A decade ago when I read the book, “Who will cry when you die?” by Robin Sharma, it had a lasting impact on my outlook towards life. For those who haven’t read this book, it’s all about living your life as if it were your last day. Ever since, I have read a few more books and anecdotes of people who have experienced unexpected death and how it changed them and the people around, their family and the loved ones.

“The Last Lecture” by Randy Pausch and lately “When breath becomes air” by Paul Kalanithi. Both of them suffered and died of cancer. Reading about them and their urge to live the life to the fullest in their last days makes me feel even more grateful for the time I have.

If we get a day to live, I think we should not regret the past and feel sad for our unfulfilled dreams. Regretting and being sad steals us of many happiness. Generally for many, an adventurous life is all about travelling and exploring the unknown. For me, there’s more to this –

When I live as if this were my last day, I won’t find excuses for things I want to achieve, instead this will be my sole reason to go for it. Maybe, it’s talking to my loved ones, learning a new language, learning to play a musical instrument, learning anything that makes me feel more confident and enriches my experience.

I clicked this picture of my favorite things. As I wrote, it’s never too late to enjoy the things that you always wanted to. For me it was going back to my childhood when I bought these soft toys whom I call Robbie and Rosie. Now they are at the mercy of my nephews and niece. Or, it was just filling a book with colors or jotting down my personal thoughts or my goals for me to look back how far I came in life.

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14 responses to “Find reasons not excuses”

  1. sifar Avatar

    Beautiful thought! And admire the quality of books you read!

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  2. Sangeetha Pankajakshan Avatar
    Sangeetha Pankajakshan

    A very nice one!

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    1. Ayesha Avatar

      Thanks dear 🙂

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  3. […] Find reasons not excuses […]

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  4. PATRICK STORIES Avatar

    Your beautiful words just made my day. Thank you so much for adding such magical drop of words in my jar of motivation.I feel blessed by your writing right now.
    I found delight love in what you just said in your post.
    Again such a beautiful write up on your blog.
    Keep the vibes on.

    #PATRICKSTORIES
    Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  5. PATRICK STORIES Avatar

    Thanks Mr/Mrs   for accepting and following my blog.

    I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.

    You have such an interesting topic I will love to read in
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    I still remain  the simple blogger…..

    #PATRICKSTORIES
    Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  6. Angela Avatar

    Wonderful words to live by!! Far too many people fall into the black hole of regret and miss out on enjoying the life they do have. Thank you for sharing😊

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  7. AprendiZ Avatar

    Beautiful… ❤

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    1. Ayesha Avatar

      Thank you.. 🙂 how’s my friend doing?

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  8. AprendiZ Avatar

    I’m good 💞… How’re you dear 😊

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    1. Ayesha Avatar

      I’m doing well too.. Can’t wait for weekend 😀

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  9. AprendiZ Avatar

    😁😁😁❤

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  10. Nishtha Gehija Avatar

    Yes, and as Robin Sharma says, it is the littlest of things that make the biggest of difference.

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    1. Ayesha Avatar

      Very true, Nishtha..

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